Expert guide to female orgasm

I first met Tristan Taormino when she came to my college for a workshop on anal pleasure. You can read all about her work at her website NSFW, btw. Tristan takes the viewer through the basics of female orgasm, anatomy, physiology and sex, offering tips and suggestions along the way. When she talks about different positions that are good for certain types of orgasm, you can see those positions, acted out in real time by the couples starring in the video. They are all porn stars themselves, but their interest in one another is surprisingly genuine—the women were able to pick their costars and the chemistry is evident.

Experts reveal how you can keep the feeling going for as long as 20 seconds — and reap the benefits…. Women might draw the short straw when it comes to many areas of physiology, but not when it comes to orgasms. On top of this, women are capable of having multiple climaxes in a single romp — some even report having orgasms into the double figures. The benefits are numerous, including stress relief from depression and natural pain relief.

By now, you've probably heard about the ways the deck is stacked against women when it comes to orgasming. It can be more complicated for a woman to figure out what works for her compared to the tragically simple "up-down" motion on a penis that seems to do the trick every time , and women just aren't having as many orgasms as men in general. But for all the drawbacks there's one huge upside: the ability to have multiple orgasms in a short window of time.

Skip navigation! Story from Sex. Dami Olonisakin is an award-winning sexpert. Through her blog, Simply Oloni , she shares sex and relationship advice with women from all over the world. Oloni also hosts Laid Bare , a sex-positive podcast, and is well on her way to becoming an author with her crowdfunded first book, The Big O.