Women holding mens balls

Sure, the testicles can be tricky to handle, but there are plenty of creative ways to play ball that go beyond the cup-and-squeeze. Don't believe us? Here, six dudes share a play-by-play of the moves that have made them go, ahem, nuts. She took them in her mouth one at a time and made humming sounds.

And a popular petting zoo, no less: the penis has become all the rage at Paris fashion week , in taste-making magazines and in indie movies from Shame to Love. When compared to the penis, testicles deliver little of the visual drama, the emotional impact, or the purely corporeal pleasure to either owner or partner. Their purpose is at once central to the existence human life and secondary to the experience of creating human life. But when it comes to sexual desirability, balls are often treated as an afterthought at best — or a liability at worst. And after manscaping and delicately framing grainy phone pics to make the rest of our junk look massive for semi-public consumption, it feels like too much to worry about the sideshow when the real show is just to the north. From their first forays into locker rooms to trillions of accumulated clicks on porn websites to endless studies declaring the scientific definition of a typical penis, men are fed a contradictory if steady diet of information with which to compare their own endowments.

Have you ever found yourself trying to figure out how to play with his balls during sex? You're not alone. Like, do we touch them? Just gawk at them? Do men want us to put them in our mouths or what?

But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist , to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous. The other day when my boyfriend and I were hooking up, he nervously asked me to play with his balls. I totally froze up because I had no idea what the heck to do.