When your new lover starts blowing hot and cold it can be upsetting. What do you need to know? Can you see how confusing this situation can be? To break it down, there are actually three stages to blowing hot and cold. The first flourishes of any relationship are addictive. What could be better?
He’s Blowing Hot and Cold: 15 Signs You’re Getting Played
Blowing Hot and Cold: The 3 Stages to Explain Why Someone Does This
It really is as simple as that. He might slow fade or ghost you. Do him and yourself a favor by deleting his number and blocking him first. You can do so much better. He should be committed to you percent if he deserves you. A guy who blows hot and cold is selfish. He should be making an effort all the time, and you should demand nothing less from him.
Blowing Hot and Cold: The 3 Stages to Explain Why Someone Does This
We all want a love story that is fairly simple and consistent: we meet a great person who is kind and everything that we're looking for, we like each other, we go on dates and define the relationship, and then we settle into a serious relationship. We don't stare at our phone a million times a day wondering if he's going to text us, and we don't have to question whether date nights are even going to happen. We don't have to wonder about anything because he's so straight-forward with us about how he feels. Unfortunately, that's not always the way that things go. We've all experienced dating a guy who acts one way sometimes and another the rest of the time.
Most women have had problems deciphering the players from the good men. As an dating and relationship coach, I have see it all. Including a lot of players and people who have been played.