Push and pull dating examples

Our brains love contradiction, I mean… even the opening line of this article was a contradiction posed as a question. Strangely enough, many women are great at the push pull technique without even trying, but because many guys come off desperate or needy, it takes some practice to even become adequate at this technique. Many people think the push pull technique is a style of flirting where you can just memorize lines, but to effectively attract a girl through interest and disinterest, you must cater the style to the girl you are using it on, which means you must do some research or already have a good foundation of attraction - which you can learn from taking my Psychology of Attraction course. So when you think about using any of these, be sure that it won't come off as if you're an idiot. Think of this style of flirting as hanging a toy in front of a cat.

Matt is one of our clients in our VIP private training group and recently asked a great candid question about how to use the push pull technique to build sexual tension with a girl. Stage 1. Boring nice guy with no edge Stage 2. Creepy Pepe Le Pew sex maniac Stage 3. The perfect balance.

Results 1 to 12 of Thread Tools Show Printable Version. I'm a recovering nice guy so seeing how to effectively push verbally and non-verbally is very interesting to me. Originally Posted by xmateosx. Originally Posted by DaBomb.

That would be straight up weird and intimidating for her. The two lines are verbally very similar, and yet, come from two totally different places. In fact, they communicate entirely different messages altogether.