Men who like cunnilingus

Photo via Wikimedia Commons. It's something that I don't do and that I have always tried to avoid in the past. When I was asked to write this piece, I felt like a kind of rare bird — though I'm sure I'm actually not. I am also not afraid of being called a jerk by women who will get personally offended by this article or will be quick to judge that I don't like vaginas. That is not true, and it is also not true of all the other straight men who, like me, do not perform oral sex.

Verified by Psychology Today. All About Sex. Actually, many most? For many men, this special gift feels deeply intimate and very satisfying. In addition, women are much more likely to have orgasms from oral than intercourse. Cunnilingus is not difficult, but some men are unschooled in the fine points. Cunnilingus is popular but less so than many people believe.

It has come to my attention that there is a terrible rumor going around about men: that we're selfish in bed. Hey, I'll admit, there's not a man I know who will decline oral sex from a woman he fancies. I mean, it's a blowjob! It's one of the all-time greatest discoveries—just ahead of Columbus finding America. Still, I take issue with this rumor.

Then I Google it and, after reading through the first ten articles, I am disappointed with humanity. Or because it means he gets to momentarily feel powerful. Or because he sees it as payback for all of the things he does for you on a day to day basis yes, these are ALL things that I found in the top search matches. So, without further ado, here are the three biggest reasons that men love blowjobs… with a few direct quotes from some of my male coaching clients whom I emailed for their input sprinkled throughout. Time and time again, the guys that I asked about what it was that they loved about blowjobs told me that it was about feeling deeply accepted by their partner.