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Ilaria Perrone, sex columnist for Grazia. Skyping from Milan, Perrone explained the hazards of dick-centric dating and swearing. What is dating like in Italy? It can be very difficult, because in Italy men date because they want to have sex. They are not always interested in you as a person. If you go with a boy in Milan, you know 90 percent of the time, you will be with him that night.

Over the centuries, women have faced judgment and scorn based on their perceived sexual behavior in virtually every sphere of discourse, from public forums in the Roman Republic to the internet forums of today. Ancient Rome may have been the forebear of the slut-shaming dress codes of today. In the Roman Republic, married women and prostitutes could be differentiated by their clothing: "A sexually virtuous married woman was meant to wear the stola, whilst a prostitute wore a toga or other symbols of the trade," wrote Lewis Webb — a Ph. It wasn't just sex workers who were slut-shamed, either. Married Roman women competed to be perceived as sexually virtuous and were punished or censured for appearing overtly sexualized, Webb wrote. Roman politician, lawyer, and philosopher Cicero delivered a speech about unmarried women in a public trial in 56 B. In William Shakespeare's popular comedy "Much Ado About Nothing," a woman is egregiously slut-shamed by her fiance and father based on an unreliable rumor about her sex life.

Slut-shaming, the public exposure and shaming of individuals for their perceived or actual sexual behavior, is rife on the Internet; it primarily affects women, and it too often has tragic outcomes. Slut-shaming is not new, but a form of cultural suppression of female sexuality that has been practiced since antiquity. In this paper, I historicize this phenomenon, by comparing and contrasting cases of slut-shaming from the Roman Republic with recent cases on the Internet, and I maintain that the focus of this slut-shaming, namely sexual virtue, has remained the same over time, but that the unregulated nature of the Internet has increased its scope and impact.

Adultery, incest and making love with a completely naked women were considered taboo. All forms oral sex for the most part were also regarded as taboo. Roman culture prized machismo. It was considered humiliating and demeaning for a man to perform oral sex on a women because it demonstrated subservience and servility to a woman.