It's a sort of "this is mine, and I can do what I want with it" There's a difference between spanking and hitting. Spanking is more gentle, open palm to not create injury. Hitting is knuckles and with the intent to inflict pain. I love to be spanked by my boyfriend. Makes me feel like he's totally in control of me, I have to do what he wants to please him. And it's quite fun as well.
Here's the deal. It's all about preferences and consent. I'm a huge spanko. I've been spanking my women all my adult life. I'm a very dominant lover with a sadistic streak. It's dominant and watching her suffer at my hands really turns me on. What makes it even trickier is that I'm the perfect gentleman in public and the head usher at a big downtown church.
I'm also a submissive , and I'm open about that too. It only goes to follow that I talk to a lot of people about their kinks. The most common kink I talk about?
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